partnering, parenting & putting this love to even greater use

i heard you the other day.

you said that you were ready to partner.

you were tired of doing life alone.

you were grateful for the seasons past but wanting something different, very different for the future…for the now.

who could meet you and match you?

who could find you and actually move forward in order to have you?

for so many others, love was found in unexpected places.

but you are so perceptive.

it’s almost like you are unable to be surprised.

would you like to be surprised or have you arranged things in such a manner to eliminate that element from all dealings?

imagine if this partner surprised you.

you saw the other one, off in the distance and thought as far as that seems, it may just be.

but what if there was one right here, living and breathing your same air.

truth is, you don’t know.

you have no clues, no strategies, no ideas.

all you have is your assignment and a deep hope.

perhaps you are anxious to build what you had envisioned.

you are ready to make a home.

you are wanting to influence those that are under your care and share your dna.

i can understand that.

i can see that.

you want to partner, parent and put this love to an even greater use.

i get it.

i do.

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  1. As I read I was waiting for you to say “and Kyle I know you are ready to start a family” really felt like you were speaking to me and have been apart of my conversations.
    I am glad you get it.

      • JuliaKate
      • June 28th, 2010

      Yes! I totally get it. Perhaps that new Twitter gravatar of yours will pay off, lol:) Thanks for stopping by & commenting Kyle.

    • Enni
    • June 29th, 2010

    Thanks for putting your insight into writing. 🙂 nice one, Jule!

      • JuliaKate
      • June 29th, 2010

      thanks Enni. glad you enjoyed it;)

  2. is it weird to say that I have every desire to parent even more kids (because I already have one), and I would love to be able to adopt more children… but I dont think I have a strong enough desire to be a partner or want a partner in life?

    Coz that’s how I feel right now.

      • JuliaKate
      • June 29th, 2010

      i don’t think it’s weird. sometimes i feel as though the desire to parent is stronger than the desire for partnership within me also. but i am very aware of why i feel that way and it usually boils down to fear. i am not saying that is the case for you at all. everyone has a different story. but all in all, i desire both very strongly.
      Thanks for stopping by the blog Patricia;)

    • sylvia
    • June 29th, 2010

    deep insight! thank you for sharing. put’s how I feel into words and to see it written down is comforting. He listens 🙂

      • JuliaKate
      • July 6th, 2010

      yes He does… He listens;) Love you!

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